Monday, June 28, 2010

What's next? - July 18, 2007

Jake got the sutures removed from his lip yesterday.  He looks fantastic!!!  See the pictures page for proof!!!  The doc said that when we go back to visit him in a month, he’ll take a look at Jake’s jaw and consider doing the jaw distraction. 

If we haven’t explained it already, Jake’s jaw is too far back thus causing his tongue to block his airway when he sleeps (probably when he’s awake too).  There’s a procedure they can do called a jaw distraction in which the jaw is reconfigured to allow more space for the tongue.  It’s another surgery with the potential for an exterior appliance for the duration of the distraction.  Given that it won’t necessarily be pleasant, we’d prefer to get this done sooner rather than later.  And, once it’s successfully completed, we can begin the process to remove the trach!  That’s the ultimate goal!

Next week Jake begins the process of serial casting on his legs.  This will be a weekly casting event to move his legs to a straighter and more relaxed position.  The ortho doc said he’ll start from the hips and work down with surgery on his clubfeet being one of the last things addressed - from the orthopedic perspective anyway. 

Between all of Jake’s therapies (physical, occupational, speech, and developmental) and the doctors appointments, the mom’s keep up a pretty crazy calendar!  All that being said, we’ve FINALLY sold our house!!!  As of August 31st, we’ll be moving to Palatine.  So, now we have to find a place to live out there.  We’re looking forward to a bigger house where Jake can have his own room and not have to share it with Betsy’s computer.  So, those of you in the Oak Park area looking to visit Jake without having to drive an extra 20 miles or so let us know when you can swing by for a visit!!!  We always love visitors and Jake like seeing new faces!!!

As always, thanks for all the good thoughts, wishes, prayers, and support.  It truly does take a village and we’ve got a great one to lean on! 
Grandpa Gates
Jake's smile comes shining thru!  Especially with the dinosaur.  I cannot wait to see him when we go house hunting this afternoon.  Jake and I will chill out in the Scion whie you look at new homes for him.

By the way, for those of us already in the Boondocks, this move puts you 20 miles closer.  So We can see him more and he can play with his cousins in Alqonquin.
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 - 09:49 AM
Nurse Sarah
King Jake looks fantastic! I am so excited to hear about his progress. Thank you so much for all the updates. Just look at that killer smile! Hopefully Kevin and I can make a visit before you guys move. Congrats on selling the house too!
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 - 10:12 AM
Mary & Leslie
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful updates and pictures!  Whether it's in Oak Park or Palatine, we look forward to seeing Jake and Moms' soon!  Much love, hugs and kisses!
Wednesday, July 18, 2007 - 02:35 PM

A whole new look - July 11, 2007

The proof is in the pictures!!!  Check out Jake’s new look on his photo page.  And, by the way, King Jake is now accepting visitors!!!  Ask the mom’s about his availability.
mike and pam
Beautiful!  Can't wait  to meet you!!
Wednesday, July 11, 2007 - 09:46 PM
Auntie Jo-Ann
Hi Guys!!!
I didn't think he could be any cuter but i guess I was wrong.  He is.......Wow what a change......Miss you all.
Love
Auntie
Jo-Ann
Thursday, July 12, 2007 - 09:52 PM
Anonymous
Way to go Baby Jake. Beautiful and Precious. I LOVE YOU. We all do very very much. You take my breath away and I'm sure your mommies agree.

Love you,
Aunt Chrissy
Thursday, July 12, 2007 - 10:44 PM
Dot and Michelle
Wow!  Plastic surgery is so amazing! 

Give Master Jake a big kiss from his aunts Michelle and Dot and tell him we'll be out to see him soon.  Oh yeah, and his moms too.

xo
Dot and Michelle
Friday, July 13, 2007 - 10:17 AM

Lip Surgery Part Deaux - July 10, 2007

Well, just we thought that Jake couldn’t get anymore handsome, he went and proved us wrong.  Jacob had surgery this morning to repair his cleft lip and the left side of his nose.  Wow!  Dr. Vicari did a fantastic job!  There is a little bit of swelling, but you can already tell what his “new” face is going to look like. 
We’ll have some pics and more details tomorrow, but just wanted to let everyone know that he’s doing great and will be home from the hospital tomorrow. 

Tune in tomorrow for more of the good stuff!!

Anonymous
That is awesome news!  I knew the little guy would come through great!  Thanks for the update -- I've been thinking about him all day. 

Love to all,
Aunt Michelle & Aunt Dot
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 05:13 PM
Judy
Good news!  Grandma Mary Anne called me to say "if you thought he was too cute before, wait till you see him now".  That's one proud Grandma,
allright.  Boy, he sure takes everything in stride.  I'm glad he's doing so well.
Looking forward to more pics and of course more great news updates.

Love to all,
Judy
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 06:24 PM
Fon's Clan
GREAT NEWS!!! That is WONDERFUL to hear!!  ;)

love,
Kim, Traci and Stef
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 06:46 PM
Julie Peters
Cheering you on wildly!  Did you ever think you could love somebody so much?
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 09:16 PM
We all love you and our little trooper. Aunt Chris
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 09:26 PM
Cousin Nate
Dear Baby Jake,

I said my prayers tonight. I asked baby Jesus to watch over you and I'm glad He did.

Love Your Cousin,
Nate
Mommy and Daddy are glad things went well too.
Isn't Mommy a wonderful translator? See you soon. xoxoxoxooooooo
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 - 11:04 PM
Aunt Lorry
Thanks for the update and I am dying for pictures!!!! I agree with you though I did not think he could get much cuter! I thought about you all, all day and of course was wishing I was there to assist your Mom with some sort of nagging!
Wednesday, July 11, 2007 - 06:14 AM
Auntie Jo-Ann
Hi Guys
I am so proud of King Jake.  No matter what they throw in front of him, he handles it like a champ.  I just can't imagine him any cuter.  I am so glad he came through it like a champ.  I miss seeing his cute little face.  Keep up the good job.........
Love
Auntie Jo-Ann
Wednesday, July 11, 2007 - 07:52 AM
Anonymous
HEY BETSY & ANDREA:

      You had better practice what you will do/say when all those baby girls begin fawning over Jake.  

Love and Prayers to all!
john & marietta
Wednesday, July 11, 2007 - 08:52 AM

Lip surgery - July 3, 2007

We have a date for Jake’s first lip surgery!  Next Tuesday, July 10th!!!  Yea!!!!!  We’re obviously very excited.  During the surgery, the ENT (ear, nose & throat doc) will go in and do another scope to check out his airway.  She wants to check to see if his airway has improved so we can get on the road to getting the trach out.  It’ll be great with her and the plastic surgeon both there at the same time so they can talk about whether or not they need to do anything with his jaw to improve the airway.  We anticipate just an overnight stay at Children’s and the plastic surgeon said he should heal up pretty quickly.

That’s all for now!  More next week post-op!  Oh yeah, more pictures have been posted.....
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You all stay in my prayers each day. It will be nice to have him back home in one day. I am so glad you set all this up so we can keep up with his progress.
Tuesday, July 3, 2007 - 10:31 PM
Anonymous
We will be thinking of Jake on Tuesday!  Happy 4th!
Love,
Katie Mitchell
Wednesday, July 4, 2007 - 07:11 AM
Anonymous
This is great news, Mommies!!!
We think of you often and look forward to these updates on your little man, Jake! The three of you remain in our prayers, particularly now on Tuesday. ;)

Happy 4th to all of you!
Kim, Traci and Stef
Wednesday, July 4, 2007 - 07:48 AM
Pam Goff
What exciting news!  Things are progressing very nicely it sounds.  If I remember correctly sooner then originally planned!  Which is FANTASTIC!  He's such a cutie patootie!  I too, am so glad you have this website.  I love seeing "Another Update" !!!
Wednesday, July 4, 2007 - 07:49 AM
Anonymous
Hello to the Mommies & cuddles to Jake!
Thanks for another update.  I'm so happy that his surgery will be so soon & that his airway will be assessed.  Everything seems to be moving along at a pretty
good pace.  That's wonderful!  I'll keep you all in my prayers, as always, with some extras on Tuesday.  Jake is just too cute!!!

Love to all,
Judy
Wednesday, July 4, 2007 - 11:57 AM
Auntie Jo-Ann
Hi Betz and Andrea
My prayers are always with KING JAKE.  He is so precious.  I was glad that I was able to spend the time with you both and Jake.  He is so cute.......Miss all of you so much.
Love
Jo-Ann
Monday, July 9, 2007 - 09:29 AM

A Big Day - June 26, 2007

Today was a big day for the little guy.  We met with his new plastic surgeon and got some good news!  We’ll call his office on Friday to schedule the first surgery on his lip.  The doc said he’ll do it in a couple phases with the first being the repair of the lip.  Then, later, when Jake’s 8-10 months old he’ll do repairs on the palate.  Very exciting!  Sounds like we can get the lip scheduled fairly quickly! Oh, the ENT (ear, nose & throat) will go in to check his airway when the lip surgery is being done too.  That will get us on the road to getting the trach out.  It won’t come out real soon but it’s absolutely not a permanent thing. 

That’s the big news for now.  We meet with his new orthopedic surgeon in a couple weeks.  Things are going really well.  We have overnight nursing in place which really helps.

He really surprised us both today while we were waiting to see the doctor.  Andrea was holding him and I asked her, “Did you just move his arm?”.  She said, “No.”.  He moved his right arm again, a good two inches...just to show off.  Seems like the occupational and physical therapy is already helping!  He’s got a LONG way to go but he’s getting more flexible by the day.

As always....stay tuned for future updates.........as time allows!
June 26, 2007
A big day

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Anonymous
Hey guys,

Great news. That little nephew of mine is  a champ. I love you baby Jake. Nate and Alex love you too, and Uncle Jimmy. Hope to see you soon.

Love,
Aunt Chrissy
Tuesday, June 26, 2007 - 10:19 PM
Anonymous
That is such good news, but what else could he do with devoted parents like you two.  We'll keep praying for you all (steady progress for Jake and sleep for the parents)

Love ya,
Aunt Terry
Tuesday, June 26, 2007 - 10:23 PM
Aunt Lorry
Well, having his lip done won't make him any cuter if that's what you have in mind! All good news and one more step in the right direction. Great news on his arm. I have been thinking about nerve endings and how stimulation makes them grow and become active. Keep up the OT!  On the other hand It also may be the thousands of stimulating toys you two bought for him!
As always keep me posted.
Love,
Aunt Lorry
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 05:52 AM
Anonymous
good news, glad to hear he's doing well.  Fuzzy Monkey
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 07:44 AM
Auntie Jo-Ann
That is great news.  But what do you expect with two parents like you two.  The Good Lord knew what he was doing when he sent such a special little guy to you two.....Can't wait to finally see this little baby angel.  He really is a little fighter.  God Bless all of you.
Love
Auntie Jo-Ann
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 07:58 AM
Anonymous
Really good news!  You three are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.  We love you!  Keep on workin' those limbs Jakey!

Love,
Aunt Dot and Aunt Michelle
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 08:11 AM
Anonymous
I am so glad to hear he is doing so well!!
I look forward to more updates and pictures.
I finally found the first few original postings in my "spam" folder. Sorry I am behind on the news!! I wish your family well!
Lisa Gates
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 09:57 AM
Anonymous
Hi Mommies! 
We love the updates, thank you so much for finding the time to post news.  It's wonderful to hear how King Jake is doing and we are sending lot's of hugs and kisses your way!  Hope to see you all soon : )
Love,
Leslie & Mary
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 11:15 AM
Grandpa Gates
Andrea & Betsy,

We were really happy to see Jake on Sunday and Amazed at how much he has grown.  He has to be over 10lbs.  The therapy you showed us is terrific and obviously is improving his flexibility.  He is on my mind every day and I have a image of those dark eyes staring up at me.  He is precious and very special to us.

Love,
Grandpa Gates
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 11:50 AM
Anonymous
YEAH JAKE!!! YOU GO BOY!!! Wish we where closer so we could see you all. Keeping all 3 of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love from Harrisburg, PA.
The Meadath Family
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 07:58 PM
I am so glad God put him in your care. He could not have picked two finer people to love him. I will keep you in my prayers as usual for strength and nurture and daily joys like when Jake moved his arm. I am glad to hear that you have the night nurse. If you need any backup or babysitting I am off all summer and would be glad to help out. Love,Great Aunt Chris
Wednesday, June 27, 2007 - 09:28 PM
Anonymous
I am really glad to hear he is progressing well.  Thanks for taking the time to let us know how things are going.  Hugs, kisses, well wishes, and prayers to the family!!

Michael
Saturday, June 30, 2007 - 12:24 PM
Love, Bruce and Edna
We are so thrilled to hear of Jake's progress.  You continue to be in our prayers and we look forward to meeting Jake and seeing all of you.  Keep up the the good progress and thank you for keeping us all up to speed on Jake's progress.
Saturday, June 30, 2007 - 07:58 PM
We are thinking and praying for yu three angels.  Thank you for taking time to keep us updated on Jake's progress.  We love you lots, and pray for your continued good news updates. 

cha, noel, and the three bears
Saturday, June 30, 2007 - 11:35 PM